Pathophysiology Of Fibroids

the family grew (part 2) Interview to Dr. Manganiello Katjuscia

Intervista alla Dott.ssa Katjuscia Manganiello; dalla rivista "L'Agenda della Salute", Ed. Media '60 - Direzione Scientifica Carlo Gargiulo

Quanto è frequente the case of men who tend to avoid physical contact with his girlfriend pregnant, as if it were inappropriate shame because with the current state, because the idealized mother image as pure and sexless?

In groups of pre-natal classes that I lead, at the ASUR No. 1 of Pesaro, it is apparent across the subject of physical contact, intimacy and sexuality as a topic of interest both male and female. The tendency to live a woman's body as sacred and inviolable is not as frequent as you can think of and usually emerge later in pregnancy, when the female body clearly show the presence of a life that is growing. The woman buys a golden misteriosa di colei che tiene in grembo il segreto della vita e l’uomo ne rispetta la magia osservandola a distanza, a volte con timore. All’inizio della maternità la realtà è diversa. Accade, infatti, che il partner, nonostante, lo stato interessante della compagna, mostri difficoltà a riconoscere la situazione che cambia continuando a proporsi e a proporre uno stile di vita inalterato, anche nella sfera sessuale. Questo accade perché l’uomo non vive direttamente l’esperienza della maternità ma solo di riflesso e quindi continua a immaginare la propria donna come la persona di sempre fino a quando il cambiamento non diventa evidente.


Dal lato opposto per molti uomini il corpo della pregnant woman is sensual and attractive, also because it is a test of their manhood while many women with the obvious pregnancy, the breast and belly rising, are perceived as more feminine and sensual, which increases the research and the desire of the partner . This is the normal impression of a mature and well-matched pair?

Talk about feeling "normal" is not really correct in the sense that no ad hoc situations and appropriate for all equal but each pair must be in the specificity of its report, the right way to live one's sexuality and intimacy in general . Certainly the mutual attraction and desire are the expression a good marriage covenant but alone are not sufficient to reach a satisfactory sexual relationship, at a time so delicate and motherhood. The couple must also use other resources: the ability to express their needs directly, to recognize the point of view and accept it, to listen to each other and to be ready to find new ways of being together that they meet the changes in act. All these resources are needed not only before birth but also and above all, dare I say, later when the couple shall include in its report, the newborn baby ... to read the entire article click here

Elena Buonanno in collaboration with Dr. Manganiello Katjuscia

Katjuscia Dr. Manganiello - Psychologist Psychotherapist Pesaro Urbino ( Marche)
Study of Psychology and Psychotherapy - via Guido Posthumus, 8 Urbino, Pesaro (Marche)